What is the best way to contact you? May I call you?
The best way to reach me is always via Phone. Especially once you are verified, and have confirmed an appointment.
Can we meet briefly for coffee or cocktails, so that I can see if we get along?
Absolutely, but the rates for my time remain the same. That would be considered an arrangement of time with me, and I would have to be given my normal donation for that time spent.
Are your pictures really you?
Yes, they are. I work out on a regular basis, and live a healthy lifestyle. All of my pictures are of me, and all of them are recent.
Are your rates negotiable?
Sorry, they aren't. Please don't try to negotiate with me; I find it offensive and will end all communication immediately.
Can you bring a girlfriend on a date?
Yes! I like women very much, and have a few wonderful girlfriends who would love to join us on our date.
What will you wear?
I have a phenomenal wardrobe and variety to fit any occasion. If there is something you request please let me know. You can be assured that I will be classy and never wear questionable attire.
How can I give you your donation?
Please provide the cash or money order in an envelope, magazine or book and hand it to me as soon as we meet or slip it in my purse discreetly. That way we are both at ease and can begin to enjoy each others company!
Are the photos of you authentic?
Absolutely! I do not believe in false promotion. They are recent to show you what I look like now, not yesterday or what I hope to attain.
Do you travel?
I am currently enrolled in a program of study, so please take that into account when planning travel with me. However, I do welcome travel engagements. With enough notice, I can fly to meet you anywhere. I have a US Passport, and am available for international travel. I am conversant in French, Spanish, and Italian, and am always looking for an opportunity to improve my language skills and cultural awareness.
What methods of payment do you accept?
I accept cash, wire transfers, direct deposit, and money orders/certified checks from recognized financial institutions. Established friends will be provided with further options.
Do you like gifts?
I love gifts, although they are not required or expected. If you wish to indulge me, please click here for a list of some things that will bring a smile to my face.
How far in advance can I book an appointment with you?
I prefer twenty-four hours notice. For travel to another city or state I a prefer two to three days notice. For international travel I prefer a weeks notice.
Would you accompany me out to dinner or a night out on the town? Would you attend a special event with me such as a fundraiser or gallery opening? Would you come with me on a business trip or vacation?
I would love to do all of these things with you. I'm educated and well traveled and I think you would enjoy bringing me along. I also dress appropriately for every occasion. Be forewarned because I will still turn heads...in the right way of course! You'll love having me on your arm!
Are references really necessary?
While I appreciate your need for discretion, my safety is as important as your privacy. Trust is an integral part of our relationship. If I cannot verify you, I cannot see you.
What are your expectations of me?
I expect you to present me with my fees at the commencement of each appointment. If we are in public, please be discreet and use a gift card or a small gift bag. I expect that you be a gentleman at all times and respect any boundaries I have. To make our date as enjoyable as possible, please be well groomed, freshly showered and have minty-fresh breath.
What happens if I have to cancel?
If you cancel with more than 3 days notice (or in the unlikely event that I must cancel), your deposit will be refunded in full. Should you need to cancel with 24 hours to 3 days notice, I will refund 50% of your deposit. The remaining 50% (less any incurred expenses) will be applied towards a future engagement so long as it occurs within 2 months of the initial cancellation. Cancellations under 24 hours are non-refundable.
Do you like to travel?
Yes, I love to travel. With enough notice, I can fly to meet you anywhere! I require a first date before traveling with someone I have never met. If we are not well acquainted, I will require my own room. I expect to be reimbursed for travel expenses.
How long will it take you to respond to my inquiry regarding an appointment?
It typically takes 24-48 hours in that I have a career outside of the hobby that dictates a big part of my time. I am overwhelmed in appointment requests, therefore, I ask for your patience and persistence. If I don't reply, it means that your appointment request was either incomplete, or that it was lost in the hundreds of weekly inquiries.
What is your personality type?
Friendly, warm, welcoming, very sweet, nurturing and "puppy-dog".
When can we meet?
I need time to conduct screening and check references. Sometimes this can be accomplished quickly, but I prefer a little advance notice. Ideally 24 hours. If I am not able to check references, I am not able to see you.
How far in advance would you like for me to schedule a visit?
I require a minimum of 24 hours notice. For travel engagements a minimum of two weeks notice is necessary. I have many activities which occupy my time and I must plan my responsibilities and schedule accordingly.
Do you like gifts?
I love gifts, though they are not required or expected. If you wish to indulge me -
I would be delighted to receive a gift (or gift certificate) from my Wishlist section.